Sorry for going dark, it's been quite difficult. We arrived home at about 7:30 Saturday night. the boys slept in the car. At 1:40 AM Ellen found Thomas downstairs, with the lights on, rifling through luggage. The day began with 2 hours sleep after being up nearly 24. Papa got up but managed another two hours before getting up for good. Basically, they just wanted to run around and pull down everything within reach.
Another interesting aspect is they are obnoxious about wanting to eat ALL THE TIME. They will just park at the kitchen table and demand food. If we gave them what they want, they would in all honesty eat about twice as much as any adult - and that's exactly what they had done on the trip home. Sunday was truly a horrible day. The bright spot was a trip to target, where I brought merchandise to the cashier who: asked how I was, rang the items, put them in a plastic bag, made change without trying to shame me into giving exact change, didn't throw the receipt at me, and said "thank you". This simple event brought me back to America as much, or more, than the flight had. Never take for granted what we have here in the USA. Always appreciate our nation's blessings and be prudent stewards of our resources.
Monday, the woke up at 2:40 am and were sent back to their room and made to keep the light off. they got up for good at 5:30. Monday was much better as they are starting to settle down and are even cute. We took the to Target, and they were fabulous. It was wierd taking our two children, in booster seats, to Target in our station wagon.
Lucy remains traumatized which does not bode well for the boys. They will have to change their ways or start bringing in revenue if they wish to continue indoor living.
While we have returned to the address we had departed from 4 weeks (to the day) earlier, it is very clear the real journey is just beginning. Kelly World isn't shutting down just yet.
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I was getting worried the saga - at least in printed form - had come to an end. Glad to see you are back on line. There are so many stories yet to be told. Don't fatigue. There are a lot of us out here who are living vicariously - and loving every detail.
Steve
Welcome home Kelly's! So happy and relieved that everyone made it back safe and sound. There will be lots of adjustments for all, but you will do great. Those boys are so very lucky to have you, Chris, and Ellen as their parents. Like all children, they probably won't know to what extent until well into their adulthood; {smile}, we've been there. Take care, we will continue to enjoy your blogs as long as you post them. You'll have many exciting adventures to write about, I'm sure. It's been great following your adventure so far.
Best regards,
jan
Ellen and Chris, Hmmm, 1:40/2:40 am... given the time difference, those sound about the right times to wake up! 7:40ish? They'll adjust - just in time for Daylight Savings Time (March 9th)! ;o)
As for wanting to eat all the time, they're probably so used to having a structured day that they knew just what to expect and when. Without that structure, well, they have to do something! Once they become familiar with your routine, things should settle down. Preschool or a playgroup might even be helpful - not only to break up their day, but to give you a little respite!
Don't be discouraged! These little guys are experiencing so many new things. They are curious, and I'm sure do not mean to be destructive.
Before you know it, these early days at home will be fading memories. You & your 2 little "Amelikan" boys will begin creating lasting memories you will cherish forever and some day share with your grandchildren!
Well, about that picture of Ellie and Chris in their kitchen that is on the home page of this blog? Well, they don't sit there anymore, as two little boys do. Isn't that the way with kids? I just want to say that I have met the new Kelly family, and it is a wonderful thing. We are already missing them. I suspect that Ellie and Chris, after 2 hours of sleep per night, have a different vision in their minds, but what we see is two smiling faces that have a shot at a life. I want to thank Ellie and Chris for bringing this experience into our lives, as much as theirs. Tiring days ahead, but so worth the effort. No one said it would be easy, but usually the things that really matter aren't. Hang in there - we're rooting for you!
Welcome home Chris and Ellen. While I am sure the adjustment will be quite difficult at times, all four of you will get through it before you know it. It is so wonderful that you will get to experience life with these two adorable boys!
We hope to continue to hear more about the boys and how all four of you adjust to your new family life.
Diane M
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